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Senior Living for Couples FAQs

Senior Living for Couples FAQs

What do you think of when you hear “senior living”? If you picture a vibrant, active community, you’re on the right track! Senior living today is all about opportunities for couples to enjoy their time together in a supportive and enriching environment.

Imagine a place where you and your partner can continue your journey, filled with care, companionship, and new experiences. Senior living isn’t just for individuals – it’s a perfect setting for couples to thrive and make the most of this exciting chapter of life. You and your partner can rediscover common interests and enjoy doing the things you love side-by-side.


Whether you’re exploring options for yourself or loved ones, our FAQs are here to answer all your questions:


Q: How do I know if it’s time for my spouse and I to consider senior living?

Answer: Recognizing the right time to move to senior living is a deeply personal decision. If you’re unsure, here are some signs that may help guide your choice:

When keeping up with daily chores and home maintenance feels overwhelming. When tasks like cooking, cleaning, or getting dressed become more difficult. When mobility issues arise, or there are frequent falls. When memory concerns surface, or regular medical care becomes necessary.

For more advice on determining if you’re ready for senior living, explore our resources on Where to Begin.

Q: Can couples stay together in senior living?

Answer: Yes! Couples can absolutely stay together in senior living. Just because you are in senior living does not mean you have to be away from your spouse; you can live together! Couples in senior living can live a beautiful life while receiving help with needed care, all without having to sacrifice their relationship.

Q: Can we have a private apartment, or will we need to share with others?

Answer: Most spouses in senior living can enjoy private apartments, townhouses, or suites. These private residences provide you with the amenities, care, or support you require without compromising your privacy. However, you can still enjoy all the perks of the community, such as communal dining, shared outdoor spaces, or pre-planned social gatherings, all while living quietly in your own slice of paradise.

Whether you prefer a cozy studio, 2 bedroom apartment, or a more spacious stand-alone cottage, there’s a senior living community with the perfect housing option for you and your partner.

Find a Five Star Senior Living community near you to explore available floor plans.

Q: What happens if one of us needs more care than the other?

Answer: Many senior living communities are designed to allow you to stay with your partner even when you require different levels of care. Senior living communities are well equipped to manage varying needs within the same community. They can easily cater to one spouse’s need for greater support, typically in the form of assisted living or memory care, while allowing the other spouse to continue living independently. Additionally, couples in senior living can enjoy shared meals, activities, and community events and spaces without compromising on health care.

Q: What if my or my spouse’s care needs change over time?

Answer: Senior living communities understand that care is not a static thing. It changes over time as life changes.This is why many senior living communities offer a continuum of care.

For example, many Five Star Senior Living communities offer living options such as: independent living, assisted living, memory care, and rehabilitation services, meaning that even if you or your spouse’s needs change over time, they can often stay put.

Q: How do I discuss the idea of senior living with my spouse?

Answer: Whether you’re trying to convince your partner or exploring senior living options for your parents, these tips can help you start the conversation:

Begin by discussing any challenges you’re facing in your current home, such as the growing demands on family members, increased care needs, or feelings of loneliness and isolation.

Gradually introduce the idea by visiting senior living communities together. Explore the amenities, talk to residents for first-hand insights, and get a clear understanding of the costs.

Once you’ve gathered this information, you can have a more in-depth conversation about future plans. Consider questions like: What are the benefits of senior living? Is aging in place still a realistic option?

As with all discussions about big life changes, talk from a place of empathy and love.

Q: What steps should I take to move forward with senior living?

Answer: Once you’ve made the decision to move to senior living, the next step is finding a community that truly feels like home for both you and your partner. With over 135 communities across 28 states, Five Star Senior Living offers a wide range of options to suit your needs.

Beyond our convenient locations, we’re deeply committed to providing exceptional care that allows couples to fully embrace and enjoy their golden years together. True to our name, our services are designed to meet five-star standards. With a focus on both senior living and hospitality, we prioritize our residents and continuously seek new ways to enhance their lives.

Learn how one couple continues to celebrate a lifetime of love at one of our Five Star Senior Living communities.

Ready to explore how senior living can enhance your life as a couple? Contact us today to get started.

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