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Can You Come and Go in Assisted Living?

Can You Come and Go in Assisted Living?

The decision to move to assisted living is usually filled with questions. Many seniors—and their families—ask:

Can you come and go in assisted living? Are visitors permitted?

These are valid questions because, at the core of senior living, there is one fundamental principle—independence.

Assisted living is meant to assist people, not limit them. Many seniors fear that moving into an assisted living community means giving up on their autonomy, but this couldn’t be further from the truth. Assisted living is designed to provide support while preserving agency so that residents can maintain control over their lives, routines, and interactions with loved ones.

Can Assisted Living Residents Leave on Their Own?

Yes, absolutely. Assisted living residents have the freedom to leave whenever they want. These communities are not secure facilities; instead, they offer the support and care that enables residents to live life to the fullest.

Residents often leave for:

  • Errands, such as going to the grocery store
  • Doctor’s appointments or therapy
  • Social engagements with friends and family
  • Local attractions, including restaurants, parks, or events

Many assisted living communities also support this independence by allowing residents to keep their car or any other personal mode of transportation. For those who prefer not to drive, most communities also offer scheduled transportation or shuttle services to nearby shopping centers, medical offices, and social outings. These options ensure that residents can stay connected to the outside world and continue living an active, engaged lifestyle—on their own terms.

Are Visitors Allowed in Assisted Living?

Also, yes, visitors are allowed in assisted living communities—family, friends, even pets in many cases are welcomed. Visiting hours are often very flexible, but it’s a good idea to inquire about any specific visitation policies that apply during the research phase.

Many communities go a step further by offering welcoming spaces where residents can spend quality time with visitors. From cozy common areas and beautifully landscaped outdoor courtyards to private dining rooms that can be reserved for birthday celebrations or family dinners, assisted living communities are built to support meaningful moments.

Beyond casual visits, families are often invited to participate in a wide range of events and activities—such as holiday celebrations, themed dinners, and support groups. These gatherings not only bring families together but also foster a sense of inclusion and community, helping everyone feel like they’re part of the resident’s daily life.

Discover Five Star Senior Living

At Five Star Senior Living our communities empower residents to live on their terms while providing the support they require to flourish.

When you’re ready to explore the right fit for yourself or a loved one, we encourage you to visit one of our assisted living communities in person. A tour is the best way to get a feel for the environment, meet the team, and see how our services align with your lifestyle and preferences. Not sure what to look for on your visit? Check out these helpful tips for touring an assisted living community to make the most of your experience and ask the right questions along the way.

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