Caring for a loved one with Alzheimer's disease or other dementia-related illnesses can take a toll on you physically and emotionally. We've provided these tips to help ease your worry.
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BATHING When bathing is a challenge:
- Make sure the bathroom is warm, inviting and well lit
- Prepare the bath ahead of time
- Put only 1 to 3 inches of water in the bathtub
- Play soft music to create a calm and relaxing atmosphere
- Simplify the task of bathing... one step at a time
- Don’t give a bath every day
- If bathing continues to be difficult, do partial sponge baths daily with a full bath every 3 to 4 days
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COMMUNICATION To communicate better:
- Try to remain calm using a gentle matter-of-fact approach
- Talk with the person in an area that is free from distraction
- Use simple short sentences
- When you need to repeat something you said, use the exact wording as the time before
- Keep the pitch in your voice low (the person can hear it better and will remain more calm)
- Look directly at the person and make sure you have his or her attention before you start
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DRESSING When dressing becomes more difficult:
- Keep the daily routine for dressing the same
- Avoid delays or interruptions in the morning routine
- Make sure the room is well lit and warm
- Label each dresser drawer with a description of contents
- If you lay out clothes, make sure the first item to put on is on the top and the last item is on the bottom
- Try using jogging suits, sweat pants and shirts for easier dressing
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EATING When healthy eating is a concern:
- Provide the person with a good dental checkup
- Improve lighting in eating areas to avoid glares
- Reduce distractions at the table(remove papers, books, shut off the TV or radio)
- Make eating simple by providing finger foods
- Provide meals at regular and consistent intervals
- Verbally guide the person through his or her meals
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INCONTINENCE When incontinence is an issue:
- Have the person use the toilet before and after each meal, as well as before going to bed and after getting up in the morning
- Simplify clothing. Try velcro instead of zippers & buttons, and trousers with elastic waist bands
- Purchase inexpensive washable chair cushion covers. Put them over large garbage bags to waterproof the cushions
- Paint the wall behind the toilet a dark color (dark green, maroon, dark blue) as this will make the toilet easier to see
- Keep a bell or light handy for the person to use if he or she has trouble getting to the bathroom
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WANDERING When wandering off is a problem:
- Allow the person to wander about the home, but make sure the environment is safe and secure
- Remove scatter rugs to prevent falling or tripping
- Place familiar objects, furniture and pictures in the person’s surroundings
- Remove items that may trigger a desire to go out such as shoes, coats, hats, and purses
- Take the person out for regular walks
- Camouflage interior doors to match the walls by using the same paint or wallpaper
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SLEEPING When sleeping becomes difficult:
- If the person awakens during the night, check to see if he or she seems too hot or cold
- Limit or discontinue caffeine
- Provide night lights or safety lighting to help lessen confusion
- Play soft relaxing music
- Allow the person to sleep in a chair or couch if he or she refuses to get into bed
- Establish a routine of the person getting up and going to bed at the same time every day
- Try to discourage daytime naps
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Five Star Senior Living can help you care for your loved one.
Whether you need a short break every once in awhile, or you're thinking about looking for a warm, caring community that your loved one can call home, Five Star has the solution for you.
Our staff has expert training in Alzheimer's care from a credentialed trainer in Montessori-based dementia programming so you can rest assured that your loved one is in the best hands.
Let us help you. Find a Five Star community now.
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Click here for a printable version of the tips (pdf)

Click here for a printable version of the tips (pdf)